OK so we’re doing lots of group pictures, the other child is running around and since he’s a boy he’s obviously playing with rocks and sticks. The baby doesn’t have that luxury yet… the muscles in his body won’t allow that yet.
This was nott the first picture that I took… we had a different thought in mind at the beginning, but like so many of my pictures it morphed into this… one of my favorites from the day.
In fact it started with this.
What shall we do? Ok let’s just lay him on the ground.
Just us getting the baby to do his cute little smiles and laughs.
I switched to get a straight on view
Still laughing and smiling and happy. The clothes, the eyes and the smile. No balls, no buckets, no boots, no bears… just the child on the dead ol’ grass of cool fall day in the mountains.
Well this kids not gonna move around to much, we’ll get a bunch of his different faces… but it’s about time to switch it up… let’s get the closest parent. The one that probably decided it’s about time for a photoshoot for the family… tadah… there’s mom.
It can still be about the child with mom as a kinda-sorta-in-there element. Baby still looking up and mom interacting.
OK mom go ahead and do whatever you want.
Not sure what the facial expression is all about… but we’ll roll with it… I think it’s cute and perhaps I could ask “Ummm, excuse me sir but could you be so kind as to close your trap”
Now that we have that… just lay down next to him and look up mom
OK mom now look at him. (She already knows she has the freedom to do so in whatever way, and she knows I will make sure it doesn’t look bad, and she knows that we’re rolling with the flow and she gets to be who she wants to be not who I want her to be)
Beautiful… the interaction… the look in both their eyes.
Personality and emotion aren’t always about over the top. But about those moments I’m sure all parents have all the time. Wonderment. Those peaceful beautiful moments.
You don’t just say ok now have a wonderful, peaceful, beautiful moment…. we find them and create them together.
Vir prudens non contra ventum mingit